Me versus Her, Round 2
Someone’s not happy about something I’ve done, as usual. I’m not mad, and I’m not trying to start another war (hmm, didn’t that happen about a year ago this week?). All I want to say is that no one has any right to pick who my friends are. If anyone has a justifiable problem with any of my friends, I welcome the criticism. Otherwise, just deal with it. If you want to know what I did this weekend, I’m gonna tell you what I did and who I did it with; that includes using people’s names rather than titles like “my friend” or “this one girl/guy.”
October 18th, 2004 at 3:53 pm
i never made you pick friends or sides. i don’t always agree with your choices, but i’d never get in the middle of your friendships. i just asked you time and time again to not mention her name around because i still can’t get over what she did to me, you or andy (even though you two did). i never will…and not hearing her name makes me feel like she doesn’t exist and that’s a better reality for my well-being. i’m not out to start a war either. i just wish you wouldn’t broadcast our little fit to everyone else…what i write on my site is not for everyone to read and scrutinize. that’s my journal. it’s for me to vent. if my friends read it, they read it. but i don’t put it up there to start a fight. so i’d appreciate it if you’d remove my address from your post.
October 18th, 2004 at 3:56 pm
Time to grow up and realize that you can be friends with 1 person while not being friends with that person’s friends. In a perfect world we would all be friends with everyone, but maybe that is the made up reality you embody. If you can’t even deal with hearing a name, how can you deal with REAL problems in life. Hell, i used to hate c-los, but then again, i’m not thinking like an 18 year old anymore. Makes life a whole lot easier when you stop hating, and allow people to live their lives as they wish, not as you wish.
October 18th, 2004 at 5:05 pm
/me dons a flame retardant suit
I’m with John on this one. Everyone who knows me knows that I am a very forgiving person, probably more so than I should be. But in any case, a long time ago I realized that there’s no sense in going through life being mad at people when they didn’t do something that would warrant a lifelong hatred of them. Margaret may have done some means/stupid things in the past, but haven’t we all? John knows I used to hate him, but now we’re really close and I’m thankful we got past the bullshit.
And since the Internet is public domain, and the post in question is no longer available, she said…